In her most recent YouTube vlog, Molly-Mae Hague has contacted parents and ChatGPT for advice on raising her two-year-old daughter Bambi.
Molly-Mae Hague has slammed ‘gentle parenting’ after revealing her two-year-old daughter Bambi has been biting other children at nursery.
The influencer and former Love Island star opened up on her latest parenting struggles in a vlog on her YouTube channel, and said that Bambi – who she shares with partner Tommy Fury – had also been bitten herself.
The 26-year-old described it as a “biting pandemic” and claimed to have even called on ChatGPT for assistance after the nursery didn’t discipline Bambi over the incident and was now debating whether to take her for ice cream because she didn’t want to “reward bad behavior.”
In a sincere conversation with fans, Molly-Mae claimed it was the “complete opposite of what I want my child to be” and that she wasn’t sure whether the nursery’s approach to handling it was the best one.
She told her two million subscribers, “She’s]Bambi bit another child at nursery today,” and she should explain more in detail what happened. I am aware that’s disappointing and open to it. Many parents are unlikely to want their child to acknowledge that they did that.
The only reason I feel a little better about it is that I received a call last week saying Bambi had been bitten, and all the children appear to be doing this at the moment.
One of my close friends has a daughter who attends the same school. And this week, her daughter has been bitten frequently. It’s horrible, really awful, and it’s really, really sad.
“It’s so confusing because if we talk to her about it when we drive her, do we give her the attention she needs from the biting? ” However, I’d be completely shocked if I were watching this video right now because I would think no, you need to tell her it’s not okay. because it is “not acceptable”
It’s the complete opposite of what I want my child to be, Molly-Mae continued, “because it’s embarrassing for me.” Literally, I want her to be just like her fellow human beings: kind, gentle, caring, loving, and gentle. I want her to be completely in that role.
And she bit off so much from who I want her to be. She is also two and a half years old and is establishing boundaries.
“It’s also difficult because their method of discipline is that they don’t actually discipline at home. They approach parenting with care. On the accident report, I received a bite-related form. They looked as though we had told her that all else was in her mouth, including chewing on her food, and biting down on it. But does that actually teach?
She is known to be aware that in the environment she is in, she won’t be offended, and there won’t be an issue if she bites. She won’t be told no, put on a naughty step, or even be subjected to any abuse.
“But then, the appropriate course of action?” Because it is obvious that what is happening right now isn’t working because it has already happened twice.
Molly-Mae said: “I always believed that if Bambi was doing something wrong, she would be told. Up until recently, I didn’t know the nursery wasn’t allowed to discipline children.” Someone should never tell my daughter that she did something incorrect.
She continued, “I’m a little stuck on this one, so I don’t know. Going to receive some comments, I’m sure. What should I do to make the right decision? I emailed ChatGPT for advice. I am aware that there will likely be some discussion about this.
Fans quickly left comments on Molly-Mae’s candor in the aftermath, with many praising her for being a mother. One person remarked, “Molly, I LOVE your open honesty with parenting. It makes me feel like I’m not the only one struggling at times. I appreciate you.”
Another person remarked, “You are so comforted by the realities of motherhood and parenting.” Thank you for being so open and real, as a fellow mama to littles, as a third person wrote: On so many levels, including your parenting thoughts, are the only YouTuber I can relate to. I appreciate your sincerity. “!
While another fan, who claimed to work in a nursery, offered the following advice: “As someone who works in a nursery, you definitely need to speak to Bambi to let her know what she’s done is not okay.
If you’re frustrated, we’ll talk about “using our words.” Give her a few books on feelings so she can begin to understand what’s happening in her body!
“Then there are other ways to get that feeling out when she’s frustrated or upset!” And I concur that if you’re unkind, show me how to be kind, and we’ll get a treat another day, you’re also a good person.
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Source: Mirror
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