Singer and actress Jennifer Lopez admitted she hasn’t ever been ‘truly loved’ as her ex husband has now hit out with a bombshell claim that she cheated and ‘is the problem’
Jennifer Lopez’s ex husband has issued a bombshell statement after she said she’s never been loved. The singer and actress made an admission about her love life when she was directly asked if she’d “truly been loved”.
She responded “no” and added: “What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable. It’s that they’re not capable. They don’t have it in them.” J.Lo has had many high-profile romances, having been married four times.
Her first marriage was to Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998, she then wed Cris Judd from 2001 to 2003 and welcomed children with third husband Marc Anthony, who she was with from 2004 to 2014. Jennifer married Ben Affleck in 2022, following their previous engagement from 2002 to 2004, but they split in August last year.
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She has also been engaged to Alex Rodriguez as he popped the question in 2019 before they called it quits in 2021. However, her recent comments about her love life has sparked a strong response from an ex.
Ojani, who was J.Lo’s first husband, issued a bombshell statement as he accused her of cheating. He fumed: “Stop putting us down. Stop putting me down with your victim card. The problem is not us. Not me.
“The problem is you. You’re the one who couldn’t keep it in your pants. You have been ‘loved’ a few times. You have been married four times. And have had countless relationships in between.”
He added: “You’ve had good relationships. Me for example. I was in love with you. I moved out of state to support, protect and care for you. I’m an amazing, loving person, great human being.
“Honest, faithful to you, never lied, never misbehaved, never cheated on you. I was too good for you. I’m too good of a man for you. You decided to lie, to cheat on me. Tell the truth for once. Let people know that you are the problem.”
In her interview, Jennifer said of her exes: “They need to appreciate the little person inside of them. They gave me what they had. They gave me all of it all the time. They tried to give me the houses, the rings, all of it. But… “
“They didn’t love you?” prompted Stern. “They didn’t,” she answered, “And I didn’t love myself.” Jennifer finalised her divorce with Ben Affleck in January after just two and half years of marriage.
The Hollywood power couple surprised the world when they announced they were marrying almost twenty years after first falling in love. They reunited in 2021, married at a Las Vegas chapel in July 2022, followed by a second ceremony in Georgia the following month.
But it wasn’t to be, with the Jenny From The Block singer filing for divorce on their second wedding anniversary. The pair worked on a musical remake of the 1976 novel Kiss of the Spider Woman together and in a surprise move, they put their differences to one side for the premiere this month.
Jennifer and Ben proved they were the friendliest of exes, and even sparked speculation there could be a reconciliation on the cards. However, it seems she wants to take things away from the public spotlight.
“I feel that I live my life very out loud even though I was in the public eye,” she told Stern on his Sirius XM show. “And I wanted to share my life with someone. I want someone to be there when I’m having my big important moments on my red carpet.
“Or if we’re going to the store. I didn’t hide from it, I spoke about it. What’s happened over the past few years to me and my children I feel like I want to keep that part so much more quiet in my life.”
The Mirror has contacted Jennifer’s representatives for comment.
