Comedian Katherine Ryan has announced she’s expecting another child, but says while she’s always wanted more kids, it feels ‘irresponsible’ to her others
Katherine Ryan admits her fourth pregnancy may be “irresponsible”. The comedian, 41, announced that she and her partner Bobby Koostra are expanding their family – they are parents to a son, born in 2021, a daughter, born in 2022, and Katherine has a daughter, Violet, from a previous relationship.
But while she has always wanted more children, she admits that expecting her fourth may be a touch irresponsible. “Here’s what I think: I do love making people. I love them, making them with you, it’s always what I wanted since prom. I think at this point, we need to see where it goes, but I think it might be almost irresponsible to the children that we have, and to ourselves,” she said to Bobby.
Speaking on the most recent episode of their podcast, Katherine revealed she hoped she was having a boy. But if she has a boy, the child is all Bobby’s she joked.
“The boys are yours and the girls, I feel like, are mine,” she said. Bobby added: “I think the best thing for the family would be a girl.” Katherine revealed the news of her pregnancy to Bobby on their podcast, leaving him shocked. “I wouldn’t have known from the last scans that we’ve had, but congratulations,” he said.
Katherine joked that the pregnancy “explained the 20lb weight gain”, with Bobby admitting she had kept her pregnancy relatively secret. Her daughter, Violet, however, hinted at the news on social media last week when she shared a clip of her mum’s blossoming baby bump.
But Katherine revealed that her partner’s sleep had been more disturbed than hers had been, with Bobby admitting he was in a “rough patch,” before explaining that the next few months will fall on Katherine. Speaking about her pregnancy, Katherine opened up about suffering a miscarriage months before falling pregnant.
The star said: “Regarding the pregnancy. We obviously lost one, which I spoke about in September, and we got pregnant again and… It’s not, like, I am happy I love having these kids, but I think I personally needed to get to a place where I was a bit like, ‘Uh-oh’.” Bobby added: “Well you do not like being told what to do so when you’re getting to an age where women are getting whatever way that goes…”
Katherine let out an audible gasp, before Bobby went on to add: “Harder to have a baby and you’re like, ‘I’ll tell you what I’ll do, I’ll have one’ and so like after the miscarriage you were more keen than ever to get it done because of the biological age and the feeling that someone telling you you can’t do something and you’re like, ‘I will do this’ and I respect that about you. And so that’s where we are, and I think we can say this might be the last one.”
But their parenting skills can be quite different. Violet has introduced their son Fred to an iPad, which Bobby is against. Speaking about the bombshell, Katherine explained: “It’s had the affect that you would think it would have, Fred is completely transfixed by this techonology and there’s a Spider Man game and he’s like (gasps), like I hear Bobby and Fred, we all sleep in the same room now – why in a five bedroom house?
“We’re up in the attic, we’re hiding from rogue government, and Fred’s like, ‘Dad, I need to play Spider-Man, Dad, where’s my iPad?’ He’s having dreams about it!” Bobby joked that Fred will often wake up and say “Spider-Man game!” before falling back asleep.
Earlier this year, Katherine opened up on her wishes for a fourth child as she admitted she didn’t think time was on her side. The former Celebrity Gogglebox star visited a fertility clinic with husband Bobby and discussed the chances of them being able to conceive.
In the second season of her hit U&W show, At Home With Katherine Ryan, she said: “It’s not that surprising that over-40 women have fewer follicles than we once did. But we talk a lot about male fertility as well, which is on a steep decline. But I would still like a fourth baby. We are so blessed to have the kids that we do have. Having children is not for everyone, but I personally really like making people. I think it’s a superpower, if you can do it.”
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