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Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz suffering ‘identity crisis’ in family feud, says expert

Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz suffering ‘identity crisis’ in family feud, says expert

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We examine the potential causes of the Beckham family’s alleged feud with experts who offer their professional opinions as Brooklyn Beckham’s Instagram post causes wiggles in the arse.

Brooklyn Beckham is believed to be at odds with his famous parents(Image: INSTAGRAM)

Although the Beckhams have long been regarded as a tight-knit family, recent rumors of feud have revealed what they consider to be flaws in their picture-perfect home. The fourth-generation David and Victoria Beckham’s children, Brooklyn Beckham, is rumored to have distanced themselves from their famous parents in recent months, making his loyalties clear in a recent, heartfelt Instagram post.

The 26-year-old photographer promised to “my whole world will love you forever x I will always choose you baby x you’re the most amazing person i know xx me and you forever baby” in a video he and his wife Nicola Peltz riding around on a motorbike.

Many people believe this message to be far more than just innocent romantic sentiment in the House of Beckham, despite the gossip and rumors that it exists. In fact, many people believe Brookyln is indicating his allegiance to Nicola, a 30-year-old woman, above his own family.

What, then, is really wrong behind closed doors? And what’s the real cause of the alleged Beckham feud? Experts offer their opinions in this article.

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Expectations of the Beckham family

L to R) Mia Regan, Romeo Beckham, Cruz Beckham, Harper Beckham, David Beckham, Victoria Beckham, Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz attend the UK Premiere of
Brooklyn hails from one of the most famous families on the planet(Image: Hoda Davaine/Dave Benett/WireImage)

Growing up in a family with high expectations can be particularly true for “strong-willed individuals with assertive personalities”, says Angela Vossen, lead sex & relationship coach and founder of Sextasy. This is especially true when, like the Beckhams, the family in question has a “high-profile, tightly knit public brand” to uphold.

As noted by Angela, “tensions” in the Beckham household appear to have risen over time, while the couple seem to have railed against family traditions from the early days of their marriage. In one telling example, remarked upon by Angela, Nicola opted for a Valentino wedding dress over a Victoria Beckham design.

Angela told the Mirror: “This rising tension can mean that even relatively small issues or disagreements start to be seen as bigger snubs, adding to the sense of ‘us v them’. Psychologically, couples may bond tightly when they perceive external criticism or control, a phenomenon called ‘reactive independence.’ This is particularly true for younger couples like Brooklyn and Nicola, who are navigating their identity as a unit in the public eye.

“If one partner feels their spouse is being unfairly targeted—say, through media scrutiny or family disapproval—they may double down on their allegiance, as seen in Brooklyn’s Instagram post: ‘I will always choose you’. This public declaration, interpreted as pointed, reflects a protective instinct, prioritising the partnership over familial harmony.”

Although this dynamic “can strengthen a couple’s bond”, Angela warns that it could see spouses risk “long-term family estrangement if not balanced carefully”.

Identity crisis

Brooklyn Beckham and wife Nicola
The couple are ‘forging their identity’ away from brand Beckham(Image: INSTAGRAM)

Couples may feel compelled to unite against their families, according to Sally Baker, an accredited, award-winning senior therapist, clinical supervisor, author, and speaker, in the face of perceived attacks.

Additionally, Brooklyn and Nicola are still developing their individual identities as a married couple just three years after their opulent Palm Beach wedding. Given that your parents are among the most famous couples in celebrity history, this is of course a much more challenging task.

A newly married couple are forging their identities outside of their traditional family, Sally said. They are unable to accept the possibility that they may have acted badly or be in trouble. To take into account that as a couple, implies that.

“Owners can appear blinkered and casually unkind as they carve their own path, but that comes with time and experience.” Thankfully, family bonds remain strong and lasting. Families are forgiving and patiently waiting for their adult child to rejoin the fold, with or without their partner.

“Loud and concise message”

 Brooklyn and Nicola
Through their social media posts, Brooklyn and Nicola are sending out a ‘loud, clear message’(Image: instagram.com/brooklynpeltzbeckham)

Teresha Young, multi-award-winning International wellness and relationship coach, advised the Mirror that the ‘it’s us against the world’ bond is far from unusual among couples embroiled in familial dramas, especially if “there’s been a sense of betrayal or some serious hurt from family in the past”.

According to Teresha, “If one partner feels let down by their family, whether in the past or now,” they may redouble their efforts to maintain their relationship and turn to them to meet their emotional needs.

Couples who adhere to the “ride or die” tenet of “passion, loyalty, and the need to feel chosen and secure in their personal relationships” can really amplify this dynamic, often putting their romantic relationship on the priority list before their extended family ties in difficult circumstances.

Delving into Brooklyn’s recent motorbike post, which body language expert Judi James previously stated seemed “brimming with symbolism”, Teresha added: “Take Brooklyn’s ‘I will always choose you’ post as an example. It’s not just a sweet reassurance for Nicola – it’s also a loud and clear message for the world: ‘We’re in this together’. Whilst that can make their bond stronger, it might stir the pot with family, creating even bigger divides.”

Emotional survival: a guideline

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - MAY 13: (L-R) Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz Beckham attend Airbnb 2025 Summer Release on May 13, 2025 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for Airbnb)
A couple ‘may pull together tightly’ if they ‘feel emotionally threatened’(Image: Getty Images for Airbnb)

The dynamic Brooklyn and Nicola encounters may well be an “emotional survival strategy,” as per EFT Couple Therapist Thomas Westenholz, which is not a novel tactic.

When couples unite against one another, Thomas said, “I need to know you’ll choose me when I feel unsafe.” This reflects a strong need for security, especially when the family system is more critical or rejecting, in terms of attachment.

The phrase “I will always choose you” may sound romantic, but it can also indicate stress in the couple’s bond. When one or both partners are emotionally threatened, they may pull together tightly in a conflicted relationship out of fear of being the only ones there is.

He continued, “Strong couple bonds don’t require cutting other people out; they are built on the security of turning toward one another, even in strained relationships with others.” You can maintain connection and boundaries at the same time with real security.

‘Universal truth’

WARNING TAKEN FROM INSTAGRAMThe last photograph of the Beckham family with their eldest son Brooklyn and his wife Nicola Peltz before their feud kicked off shows them smiling at Christmas time LINK TO PAGE:
It’s believed ‘Brooklyn and Nicola could benefit from nurturing a connection without confrontation’(Image: Victoria Beckham/Instagram)

Dr. Manpreet Dhuffar-Pottiwal, a Chartered Psychologist and CBT practitioner, commented that Brooklyn and Nicola’s “all or nothing” rebellion “underscores a universal truth.”

Dr. Manpreet commented: “The Beckham-Peltz saga underscores a universal truth – lasting harmony requires families to examine their shared emotional patterns, not just blame individuals. While personalities and compatibility influence why couples unite against families, healing begins when systems replace scapegoating with curiosity about their own role in conflicts.

Brooklyn and Nicola could benefit from nurturing a connection without conflict while the Beckhams might want to go their separate ways about Nicola’s integration. Such introspection requires courage in British culture, where appearances frequently outweigh emotional openness, but it’s the only way to break free of these deeply ingrained patterns.

The Mirror has contacted Brooklyn and Nicola’s representatives for comment.

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