ExCLUSIVE: Tony Christie and his wife Sue have supported one another through their respective health struggles.
Legendary singer Tony Christie has opened up about standing by his wife Sue through her “painful” health battles, while crediting her as “his rock” as he faces his own dementia diagnosis.
This festive season, the 82-year-old singer has collaborated with Music for Dementia to create a moving new John Lewis-inspired campaign called “Give the Music Back.” The music’s ability to change the lives of dementia-stricken families is clearly illustrated in the advertisement.
Speaking in a new exclusive interview, Tony opened up about his personal dementia journey and how he and Sue lean on each other through their respective health challenges.
Tony received his dementia diagnosis in January 2023, whilst Sue has been living with fibromyalgia for several years, reports the Express.
The NHS describes fibromyalgia as “a long-term condition that causes pain all over the body”, with sufferers experiencing heightened pain sensitivity, stiff muscles and sleep difficulties.
When Sue described their unwavering support for one another, Tony said, “She’s been there for me, and I’m there for her.
We continue to support one another through difficult times. Sometimes the roles are reversed: she helps me manage my dementia, and I occasionally manage her fibromyalgia. Some days, the pain can be unbearable. I wish there was more I could do to help because it’s such a terrible condition.
When asked about the secret to a successful marriage, he elatedly said, “Sue is absolutely my rock.” We first met in Sheffield in 1968 at a nightclub where I was performing. I said to my bass player, Mike, “That’s the girl I’m going to marry,” and I took a closer look at her. I knew, but he thought I was crazy.
“The secret,” you ask? Humor . We laugh constantly as one another. Everything has its foundation in that. We’ve gone through a lot of things together, and we both face dementia the same way we always do: with humor and love.
Before I did, Sue spotted the symptoms and suggested I see a doctor. She serves as my ally and organizer, keeping me grounded. We genuinely like each other, though, most of all. That’s what matters, after almost 60 years of marriage.
Tony also expressed his gratitude for his positive attitude despite his health problems, saying, “I’ve been blessed. I’ve had the voice and talent for music that God has given me throughout my entire life. Doing what I love every day has always been the foundation of everything.
“The secret to happiness,” you ask? Family, music, and a healthy dose of self-awareness. I concentrate on what I can do instead of worrying about what I can do. I’m still singing. I’m still able to perform.
I still have connections with people. I have fans who have stayed with me for more than 60 years, a wife I adores, and grandchildren who I’m proud of. That is a well-lived life.
Tony also mentioned how music has helped him overcome his dementia symptoms, saying, “I sing every day, it makes me feel alive. I’m fortunate that since receiving my diagnosis, my voice hasn’t altered at all. Some claim that as I get older things get better.
“I’m so blessed to be doing my touring and performing.” The fact that music is one of the best treatments for dementia made me feel very fortunate to work in the industry. It restrains it.
Source: Mirror
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