Prince Harry releases moving message on ‘feeling sad at Christmas’

During a special appearance at a festive party, Prince Harry discussed how he felt sad and reflective at Christmas.

The Duke of Sussex, wearing a Santa hat, told bereaved military children “it’s OK to feel however you feel at Christmas” as he joined 280 young people for a virtual festive party hosted by the charity Scotty’s Little Soldiers. He participated in a Q&A session and also shared a special message of support for bereaved children who are experiencing mixed emotions this holiday season.

Harry said: “It’s OK to feel however you feel at Christmas. Some people will be celebrating and happy, other people feel reflective, some people will be sad, and maybe you’ll experience every single one of these emotions and that’s absolutely fine. Remember, you’ve got each other, you’ve got Scotty’s and you’ve got the people that love you”.

The duke, who was a solo participant in the online event, is a global ambassador for the charity that assists young people who have lost a parent who served in the British Armed Forces. Additionally, the children engaged in a number of interactive games, including making snowmen out of toilet rolls and building towers out of cushions.

Bethan, a 23-year-old member of Scotty’s, joined Harry in answering the Q&amp, A session. Her father, Warrant Officer Class 2 David Coomber, who served in the Royal Corps of Signals in the British Army, died in 2011 when she was nine. Bethan said: “It was great to have so many members of Scotty’s together. Everyone enjoyed the games, which made them feel more engaged. I had a genuine emotional connection with Prince Harry.

Prince Harry made it clear that he understood what we have all been through and that it’s normal to experience a mix of emotions despite the party being upbeat and not in any way sombre. He also made it abundantly clear to us that he is proud to support us and a member of the Scotty’s community, which is very important.

Nikki Scott, who founded Scotty’s in 2010, following the death of her husband Corporal Lee Scott in Afghanistan, said:” Christmas can be a difficult time for bereaved children and young people, but this event reminded our members that they are part of a community that cares and understands. “

She added:” We also find that after events, families are more likely to get in touch and ask for help if they are struggling. We provide a range of services, including 1: 1 bereavement support sessions, which can significantly affect a family and could prevent a family from reaching a crisis point.

In 2024, Scotty’s reported supporting more than 730 bereaved military personnel and young people, and the organization estimates that each year, around 200 children are newly bereaved of their parents. Prince Harry has long been a fervent supporter of Scotty’s, according to Ms. Scott, and having him at our virtual Christmas party made it truly special and memorable for our members.

Source: Mirror