Abuse stopped family coming to games – referee Taylor

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Premier League referee Anthony Taylor has criticised the “expectation of perfection” culture that officials are subject to, and says his family no longer go to his matches because of the abuse he receives.

In an interview with BBC Sport, Taylor speaks publicly for the first time about being targeted by Roma fans as he walked through an airport with his family after the 2023 Europa League final.

The 46-year-old says he is so concerned by attitudes towards referees, there are times he thinks, ‘Is it all worth it?’.

However, he also says being a top-flight official is one of the best jobs in the world.

Taylor has been Premier League referee for almost 15 years, officiated at the Qatar World Cup in 2022 and 2020 European Championship and has overseen the finals of both the European Super Cup final and Nations League.

‘That’s the worst situation I’ve dealt with’

Taylor was confronted by Roma boss Jose Mourinho after his side had lost the 2023 Europa League final on penalties to Sevilla.

The English official showed yellow cards to 13 players during the match, and 25 minutes of added time were played across the full match, including extra time.

Mourinho called Taylor a “disgrace” twice in a post-match news conference before confronting him in a car park – an incident the Portuguese was given a four-match ban for.

Taylor was then shouted at by angry fans as he walked though Budapest Airport with his family.

“That’s the worst situation I’ve dealt with in terms of abuse,” he says.

“Not only because I was travelling with family members at the time, but it also highlights the impact of people’s behaviour on others. Even in a match like that, where there was actually no major mistakes in the game.”

Taylor felt after the match there was an attempt to “shift focus on to somebody to blame.”

He adds: “For me, that’s a great source of disappointment, frustration, anger.

“Why that’s acceptable, I don’t know – because I’m sure those individuals wouldn’t like somebody to turn around and say that to them or their own children.

“It makes you reflect back on whether you made a mistake travelling with your family in the first place. They haven’t been to one [match] since.”

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‘Win-at-all costs approach means referees’ mental health can suffer’

Taylor is not on social media as he does not want to “waste time” reading negative comments or opinions.

Last year the Premier League launched an investigation following online abuse directed at the official.

“If you’re continually told you’re not very good, whether that be by people in the media, by pundits, or even ex-officials, then people’s mental health could potentially suffer,” he says.

“The footballing culture in general is, ‘we need to win this game at all costs’.

“The lengths that people go to post-game with a lot of things now to spread false narratives, to spread malicious conspiracy theories… it creates a hugely negative environment for people to operate in.”

Taylor is also concerned by the treatment of officials in grassroots football, adding “every single weekend you can go to any local park across the UK and you can see a parent on the sideline verbally abusing a young referee. That’s not an environment conducive to people getting better. I don’t understand how people think that’s acceptable.”

Asked whether it is fair for top referees to expect a high level of scrutiny given what can be at stake on the pitch, Taylor says: “I wouldn’t argue against scrutiny being there.”

But he adds: “I’m not saying scrutiny isn’t there to be expected, but everybody who watches football always sees a game through the eyes of their team. And the result of a football match and the culmination of a football season is multi-faceted.

“It’s not dependent on one match official decision. It’s not dependent on one player missing one penalty in a game. It’s not dependent on one coach making one tactical error during a game. Playing over 38 games…

“So you say the argument one decision has cost somebody the whole season… it’s just factually not true because there’ll be plenty of other incidents in a game or over that season where the results of games have been affected.

“What I’m saying is that you can have scrutiny and you can have critique. But it’s very rarely balanced. Nobody really talks about the positive side of things a lot of time these days, either.”

VAR creating ‘expectation of perfection’

The video assistant referee (VAR) system was introduced in the Premier League in 2019.

Taylor believes it has created unrealistic expectations and that those who expected it to create a decision-making “utopia” were “way off the mark”.

“The amount of scrutiny and the amount of analysis and chat around Premier League football means everybody has a quest for perfection,” he says.

“In reality, perfection doesn’t exist. We’re expecting referees to get every decision right. It is really important that we actually start to talk about people being fearful of failure or mistakes.

“We have to accept that if we don’t create the right environment for people to thrive, then people will be fearful, and that will have a negative impact on individuals and performance in the long term. Everybody’s an expert.”

Taylor says VAR has “completely shifted” the level of scrutiny.

“It brought this expectation of perfection that it would solve absolutely everybody’s problems and it would be a utopia,” he adds.

“In reality, those people were way off the mark. One week, people will say: ‘We don’t want VAR to be too forensic.’ The next week they’ll be going: ‘How has VAR not intervened in this?’

“People really need to decide what they want. You can’t one week say, ‘we don’t want to get involved because it ruins the flow of the game’ and the next week turn round and say, ‘this is a disgrace that VAR’s not intervened here’.

Heat at the Club World Cup ‘brutal’

Taylor was one of the referees at the Club World Cup in the United States in the summer, when several matches were played in extreme heat.

He says the conditions were on a “completely different level to what you’re normally used to”.

Chelsea manager Enzo Maresca said it was “impossible” to have a normal training session during the tournament while midfielder Enzo Fernandez said he felt “dizzy” while playing in “very dangerous” heat.

“It was absolutely brutal,” Taylor says. “We were really fortunate that we had the opportunity to do some significant preparations before we left the UK using some environmental chamber work.

“The conditions were really challenging.”

Next summer’s World Cup will be held across North America.

‘Best job in the world’

Taylor is in his 17th season as a Premier League referee.

“When it comes down to it, it’s one of the best jobs in the world,” he says. “You’re right in the centre of the action in the most exciting league in the world.”

Asked how much longer he may officiate for, Taylor says: “I don’t know, if I’m honest with you.

“I’m 47 next week, so that’s quite old for somebody to be operating at this level, running around after people a lot younger than you.

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Stop expecting perfection from us – top referee

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Premier League referee Anthony Taylor has criticised the “expectation of perfection” culture that officials are subject to, and says his family no longer go to his matches because of the abuse he receives.

In an interview with BBC Sport, Taylor speaks publicly for the first time about being targeted by Roma fans as he walked through an airport with his family after the 2023 Europa League final.

The 46-year-old says he is so concerned by attitudes towards referees, there are times he thinks, ‘Is it all worth it?’.

However, he also says being a top-flight official is one of the best jobs in the world.

Taylor has been a Premier League referee for almost 15 years, officiated at the Qatar World Cup in 2022, the last two European Championships and has overseen the finals of both the European Super Cup final and Nations League.

‘That’s the worst situation I’ve dealt with’

Taylor was confronted by Roma boss Jose Mourinho after his side had lost the 2023 Europa League final on penalties to Sevilla.

The English official showed yellow cards to 13 players during the match, and 25 minutes of added time were played across the full match, including extra time.

Mourinho called Taylor a “disgrace” twice in a post-match news conference before confronting him in a car park – an incident the Portuguese was given a four-match ban for.

Taylor was then shouted at by angry fans as he walked though Budapest Airport with his family.

“That’s the worst situation I’ve dealt with in terms of abuse,” he says.

“Not only because I was travelling with family members at the time, but it also highlights the impact of people’s behaviour on others. Even in a match like that, where there was actually no major mistakes in the game.”

Taylor felt after the match there was an attempt to “shift focus on to somebody to blame”.

He adds: “For me, that’s a great source of disappointment, frustration, anger.

“Why that’s acceptable, I don’t know – because I’m sure those individuals wouldn’t like somebody to turn around and say that to them or their own children.

“It makes you reflect back on whether you made a mistake travelling with your family in the first place. They haven’t been to one [match] since.”

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‘Win-at-all costs approach means referees’ mental health can suffer’

Taylor is not on social media because he does not want to “waste time” reading negative comments or opinions.

Last year the Premier League launched an investigation following online abuse directed at the official.

“If you’re continually told you’re not very good, whether that be by people in the media, by pundits, or even ex-officials, then people’s mental health could potentially suffer,” he says.

“The footballing culture in general is, ‘we need to win this game at all costs’.

“The lengths that people go to post-game with a lot of things now to spread false narratives, to spread malicious conspiracy theories… it creates a hugely negative environment for people to operate in.”

Taylor is also concerned by the treatment of officials in grassroots football.

“Every single weekend you can go to any local park across the UK and you can see a parent on the sideline verbally abusing a young referee,” he says.

“That’s not an environment conducive to people getting better. I don’t understand how people think that’s acceptable.”

Asked whether it is fair for top referees to expect a high level of scrutiny given what can be at stake on the pitch, Taylor says: “I wouldn’t argue against scrutiny being there.”

But he adds: “I’m not saying scrutiny isn’t to be expected, but everybody who watches football always sees a game through the eyes of their team. And the result of a football match and the culmination of a football season is multi-faceted.

“It’s not dependent on one match official’s decision. It’s not dependent on one player missing one penalty in a game. It’s not dependent on one coach making one tactical error during a game.

“The argument one decision has cost somebody the whole season, it’s just factually not true because there’ll be plenty of other incidents in a game or over that season where the results of games have been affected.

“What I’m saying is that you can have scrutiny and you can have critique. But it’s very rarely balanced. Nobody really talks about the positive side of things these days, either.”

VAR creating ‘expectation of perfection’

The video assistant referee (VAR) system was introduced in the Premier League in 2019.

Taylor believes it has created unrealistic expectations and that those who expected it to create a decision-making “utopia” were “way off the mark”.

“The amount of scrutiny and the amount of analysis and chat around Premier League football means everybody has a quest for perfection,” he says.

“In reality, perfection doesn’t exist. We’re expecting referees to get every decision right. It is really important that we actually start to talk about people being fearful of failure or mistakes.

“We have to accept that if we don’t create the right environment for people to thrive, then people will be fearful, and that will have a negative impact on individuals and performance in the long term. Everybody’s an expert.”

Taylor says VAR has “completely shifted” the level of scrutiny.

“It brought this expectation of perfection that it would solve absolutely everybody’s problems and it would be a utopia,” he adds.

“In reality, those people were way off the mark. One week, people will say: ‘We don’t want VAR to be too forensic.’ The next week they’ll be going: ‘How has VAR not intervened in this?’

“People really need to decide what they want. You can’t one week say, ‘we don’t want to get involved because it ruins the flow of the game’ and the next week turn round and say, ‘this is a disgrace that VAR’s not intervened here’.

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Heat at the Club World Cup ‘brutal’

Taylor was one of the referees at the Club World Cup in the United States in the summer, when several matches were played in extreme heat.

He says the conditions were on a “completely different level to what you’re normally used to”.

Chelsea manager Enzo Maresca said it was “impossible” to have a normal training session during the tournament while midfielder Enzo Fernandez said he felt “dizzy” while playing in “very dangerous” heat.

“It was absolutely brutal,” Taylor says. “We were really fortunate that we had the opportunity to do some significant preparations before we left the UK using some environmental chamber work.

“The conditions were really challenging.”

Next summer’s World Cup will be held across North America.

‘Best job in the world’

Taylor is in his 17th season as a Premier League referee.

“When it comes down to it, it’s one of the best jobs in the world,” he says. “You’re right in the centre of the action in the most exciting league in the world.”

Asked how much longer he may officiate for, Taylor says: “I don’t know, if I’m honest with you.

“I’m 47 next week, so that’s quite old for somebody to be operating at this level, running around after people a lot younger than you.

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Stop expecting perfection from us – top referee

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Premier League referee Anthony Taylor has criticised the “expectation of perfection” culture that officials are subject to, and says his family no longer go to his matches because of the abuse he receives.

In an interview with BBC Sport, Taylor speaks publicly for the first time about being targeted by Roma fans as he walked through an airport with his family after the 2023 Europa League final.

The 46-year-old says he is so concerned by attitudes towards referees, there are times he thinks, ‘Is it all worth it?’.

However, he also says being a top-flight official is one of the best jobs in the world.

Taylor has been a Premier League referee for almost 15 years, officiated at the Qatar World Cup in 2022, the last two European Championships and has overseen the finals of both the European Super Cup final and Nations League.

‘That’s the worst situation I’ve dealt with’

Taylor was confronted by Roma boss Jose Mourinho after his side had lost the 2023 Europa League final on penalties to Sevilla.

The English official showed yellow cards to 13 players during the match, and 25 minutes of added time were played across the full match, including extra time.

Mourinho called Taylor a “disgrace” twice in a post-match news conference before confronting him in a car park – an incident the Portuguese was given a four-match ban for.

Taylor was then shouted at by angry fans as he walked though Budapest Airport with his family.

“That’s the worst situation I’ve dealt with in terms of abuse,” he says.

“Not only because I was travelling with family members at the time, but it also highlights the impact of people’s behaviour on others. Even in a match like that, where there was actually no major mistakes in the game.”

Taylor felt after the match there was an attempt to “shift focus on to somebody to blame”.

He adds: “For me, that’s a great source of disappointment, frustration, anger.

“Why that’s acceptable, I don’t know – because I’m sure those individuals wouldn’t like somebody to turn around and say that to them or their own children.

“It makes you reflect back on whether you made a mistake travelling with your family in the first place. They haven’t been to one [match] since.”

Anthony Taylor interview

Watch on iPlayer

‘Win-at-all costs approach means referees’ mental health can suffer’

Taylor is not on social media because he does not want to “waste time” reading negative comments or opinions.

Last year the Premier League launched an investigation following online abuse directed at the official.

“If you’re continually told you’re not very good, whether that be by people in the media, by pundits, or even ex-officials, then people’s mental health could potentially suffer,” he says.

“The footballing culture in general is, ‘we need to win this game at all costs’.

“The lengths that people go to post-game with a lot of things now to spread false narratives, to spread malicious conspiracy theories… it creates a hugely negative environment for people to operate in.”

Taylor is also concerned by the treatment of officials in grassroots football.

“Every single weekend you can go to any local park across the UK and you can see a parent on the sideline verbally abusing a young referee,” he says.

“That’s not an environment conducive to people getting better. I don’t understand how people think that’s acceptable.”

Asked whether it is fair for top referees to expect a high level of scrutiny given what can be at stake on the pitch, Taylor says: “I wouldn’t argue against scrutiny being there.”

But he adds: “I’m not saying scrutiny isn’t to be expected, but everybody who watches football always sees a game through the eyes of their team. And the result of a football match and the culmination of a football season is multi-faceted.

“It’s not dependent on one match official’s decision. It’s not dependent on one player missing one penalty in a game. It’s not dependent on one coach making one tactical error during a game.

“The argument one decision has cost somebody the whole season, it’s just factually not true because there’ll be plenty of other incidents in a game or over that season where the results of games have been affected.

“What I’m saying is that you can have scrutiny and you can have critique. But it’s very rarely balanced. Nobody really talks about the positive side of things these days, either.”

VAR creating ‘expectation of perfection’

The video assistant referee (VAR) system was introduced in the Premier League in 2019.

Taylor believes it has created unrealistic expectations and that those who expected it to create a decision-making “utopia” were “way off the mark”.

“The amount of scrutiny and the amount of analysis and chat around Premier League football means everybody has a quest for perfection,” he says.

“In reality, perfection doesn’t exist. We’re expecting referees to get every decision right. It is really important that we actually start to talk about people being fearful of failure or mistakes.

“We have to accept that if we don’t create the right environment for people to thrive, then people will be fearful, and that will have a negative impact on individuals and performance in the long term. Everybody’s an expert.”

Taylor says VAR has “completely shifted” the level of scrutiny.

“It brought this expectation of perfection that it would solve absolutely everybody’s problems and it would be a utopia,” he adds.

“In reality, those people were way off the mark. One week, people will say: ‘We don’t want VAR to be too forensic.’ The next week they’ll be going: ‘How has VAR not intervened in this?’

“People really need to decide what they want. You can’t one week say, ‘we don’t want to get involved because it ruins the flow of the game’ and the next week turn round and say, ‘this is a disgrace that VAR’s not intervened here’.

Getty Images

Heat at the Club World Cup ‘brutal’

Taylor was one of the referees at the Club World Cup in the United States in the summer, when several matches were played in extreme heat.

He says the conditions were on a “completely different level to what you’re normally used to”.

Chelsea manager Enzo Maresca said it was “impossible” to have a normal training session during the tournament while midfielder Enzo Fernandez said he felt “dizzy” while playing in “very dangerous” heat.

“It was absolutely brutal,” Taylor says. “We were really fortunate that we had the opportunity to do some significant preparations before we left the UK using some environmental chamber work.

“The conditions were really challenging.”

Next summer’s World Cup will be held across North America.

‘Best job in the world’

Taylor is in his 17th season as a Premier League referee.

“When it comes down to it, it’s one of the best jobs in the world,” he says. “You’re right in the centre of the action in the most exciting league in the world.”

Asked how much longer he may officiate for, Taylor says: “I don’t know, if I’m honest with you.

“I’m 47 next week, so that’s quite old for somebody to be operating at this level, running around after people a lot younger than you.

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UK venue’s bid to host Ryder Cup by creating ‘Augusta of Europe’

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A golf resort is to undergo a £170m upgrade in a bid to host the prestigious Ryder Cup tournament in 2035.

Luton Hoo Hotel, Golf and Spa has closed to allow for a two-and-a-half-year refurbishment project by owners Arora Group.

The championship golf course on the site is being developed with the help of professional golfers Justin Rose – who has played seven times for Europe in the Ryder Cup – and retired South African golfer Gary Player.

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The golf course layout is being carried out by European Golf Design which is the design company of Ryder Cup Europe.

It was behind the designs of Marco Simone golf club in Rome which staged the Ryder Cup in 2023 and Le Golf National near Paris which staged the prestigious tournament in 2018.

“If you want the best you have to bring the best team on board,” said Mr Arora.

“Work has started [on the golf course] and we have chosen contractors Atlantic Golf Construction from Ireland and they also built Adare Manor which is where the next Ryder Cup is (in 2027) so we are not skimping anywhere.”

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Gary Johnston, 47, designer with European Golf Design, said his company was also behind the design of Celtic Manor in Wales which hosted the Ryder Cup in 2010.

He said they were partly owned by the European Tour, “so we know exactly what is needed for a championship golf course”.

He described Luton Hoo as “a truly special landscape” where they would be “working with some of the features Capability Brown created”.

He said designing a golf course for it “was beyond your wildest dreams really” and it was “very conceivable” the venue could host a Ryder Cup in 10 years’ time.

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Mr Arora welcomed the competition from other venues in England which were also vying to host the Ryder Cup in 2035.

The decision is made by the PGA and the European Tour but will also require government backing.

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Today’s horoscope for October 10 as Capricorn takes pride in recent hard work

Today’s horoscope for Friday, October 10 will see Sagittarius spend time with friends, while Gemini will be determined to get their own way

It’s Friday, and one star sign can expect disagreements with a loved one, while another will find the time to relax and unwind.

There are 12 zodiac signs – Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces – and the horoscopes for each can give you the lowdown on what your future holds, be it in work, your love life, your friends and family or more.

These daily forecasts have been compiled by astrologer Russell Grant, who has been reading star signs for over 50 years. From Aries through to Pisces, here’s what today could bring for your horoscope – and what you can do to be prepared.

Aries (Mar 21 – Apr 20)

It isn’t going to be easy to convince others to see things the way you do as someone just doesn’t seem to share your perspective. If they’re behaving particularly stubbornly, you may have to rethink your approach. At home, there are many things to consider and you will have to adapt your strategy accordingly.

Taurus (Apr 21 – May 21)

After a hectic few days filled with hard work and responsibility, you are finally ready to relax and unwind. No matter what other people might think, today is about doing what feels right for you. Follow your inclinations.

Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

You are known to be flexible and sociable but today, more than anything, you just crave some peace and privacy. Even if this means pulling out of plans already made with friends, you are determined to get your own way.

Cancer (June 22 – July 23)

It’s hard to hide your feelings and someone in the family will know you aren’t happy with their recent behaviour. Because you are so annoyed with them you haven’t been as loving or as considerate as you usually are. They get the message and are starting to realise they need to change.

Leo (July 24 – Aug 23)

Money matters are making you feel uneasy. In addition to this your thoughts will turn to job-related matters. You will prefer tasks that get you out and about and moving around. Whether you’re at work or studying, be cautious of overconfidence as this might lead to small mistakes.

Virgo (Aug 24 – Sept 23)

Disagreements with someone you thought you knew well will cause some confusion. When a friend or loved one acts differently to what was expected, you might start wondering whether you really understand them. This could change the course of your relationship.

Libra (Sept 24 – Oct 23)

It’s unlikely you feel happy with the decisions and actions of someone you work with or see regularly. Their behaviour makes you wonder whether you should trust them especially when they seem to have involved you in something without your consent.

Scorpio (Oct 24 – Nov 22)

There are countless ways to spend your time but for a change, you just don’t feel like getting involved in anything too intense or demanding. If you’re looking for something lighter, why not take this chance to wrap up a few loose-ends?

Sagittarius (Nov 23 – Dec 21)

If, for one reason or another, you aren’t able to get out and mix with friends today, at least agree to get together one evening next week. Since your social world is where you will find most enjoyment, don’t deny yourself the opportunity to spend time with friends.

Capricorn (Dec 22 – Jan 20)

You should take pride in the results of your recent hard work. You are also entitled to feel angry with someone who tries to claim credit for what you have achieved. Don’t hold back from blowing your own trumpet and remember to celebrate your successes.

Aquarius (Jan 21 – Feb 19)

You will feel a little uncomfortable about having to work with someone you haven’t gotten along with in the past. Even so, just because you don’t like them doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be given a fair chance. You could be surprised by how different they seem to be today.

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Pisces (Feb 20 – Mar 20)

In situations of conflict, your natural tact and ability to positively influence others will be invaluable. This will contribute to restoring the peace. Even so, there will be a lot of unresolved emotions beneath the surface so do take care.

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Belgian police arrest three for plotting drone attack on prime minister

Belgian authorities say they have arrested three people in connection with a plot to attack Prime Minister Bart De Wever and other politicians using drone-mounted explosives.

Federal prosecutor Ann Fransen announced the arrests on Thursday and said the group were under investigation for an “attempted terrorist murder and participation in the activities of a terrorist group”, according to Belgian public broadcaster RTBF.

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“Certain elements indicate that the suspects intended to carry out a jihadist-inspired terrorist attack against political figures,” Fransen told reporters.

“There are also indications that the suspects aimed to construct a drone to which a payload could be attached,” she added.

Fransen did not name their intended targets, but social media posts from senior figures in De Wever’s government indicate that he was on the list.

“The news of a planned attack targeting Prime Minister Bart De Wever is deeply shocking,” wrote Deputy Prime Minister Maxime Prevot in a post on X.

“I express my full support to the Prime Minister, his wife, and his family, as well as my gratitude to the security and justice services whose swift action prevented the worst.”

Defence Minister Theo Francken shared a similar message on X.

“Prime Minister, Bart, all our support for you and your family. Thanks to the security services. Never surrender,” he said.

De Wever did not immediately comment on the case.

Belgium’s Gazet van Antwerpen newspaper said explosives were found by police in an Antwerp building a few hundred metres from De Wever’s residence.

Evidence included an improvised explosive device still under construction, a bag of steel balls, and a 3D printer, the newspaper said. Police believe the group were trying to build a drone capable of carrying an explosive payload.

Authorities did not release the names of the suspects but said they had been born in 2001, 2002, and 2007.

One of the suspects has been released, according to Fransen, and two are due to appear before an investigating judge on Friday.