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Mary Earps claims that her book has not been “tear anyone down” and that its response has been “distorted.”
After making comments about former Lionesses team-mate Hannah Hampton and manager Sarina Wiegman, the former England goalkeeper, who was a key player in their Euro 2022 victory, faced criticism from the fans and Chelsea boss Sonia Bompastor.
This week, Earps’ autobiography is out, but excerpts from extracts have been published in the Guardian.
Earps claims in the book that she told Wiegman that she was rewarding “bad behavior” by bringing Hampton back to the England squad after she was “disruptive and unreliable.”
Bompastor responded that Wiegman had shown “class” in Chelsea’s Hampton and that she thought Earps had disrespected him.
Earps told BBC Sport, “It’s been really overwhelming to see how some things have a little bit been distorted.”
I didn’t intend for anyone to betrayed by writing this book in any way. That makes me a different person. This is the real world. It has consequences. It is not a drama, either.
Your life is sometimes sucked together for the entertainment of other people because “women’s football has entered a space that has become a bit like entertainment.” But you know it’s not amusing, right?
“I don’t believe I thought the reaction would be what I wanted it to be. If I’m honest, I’m not surprised by what I’ve seen on my algorithms [on social media], if I had drawn the same conclusions as other people. However, I don’t believe I wrote that.
Earps declined to comment further on her relationship with Hampton in the interview, but she did mention losing her position as England number one prior to Euro 2025 and how that strained her relationship with Wiegman.
She claimed that the relationship was “just a different perspective, and she still holds onto Wiegman’s legacy.”
Of course, there were things that happened over the summer that I wish hadn’t. She says, “We’re like family;” she says at the end. I hope that hasn’t been altered by the noise in this circumstance, “added Earps.”
The 32-year-old, who is currently a member of Paris St.Germain, stated that she has no regrets about her career or choices.
Earps said, “I don’t think I have regrets, but hindsight is beautiful, and I could use the information I have now to make adjustments.”
Regrets are difficult because they are outcome-driven. In one person’s eyes, you can be a hero and a villain.
Sitting Down With Mary Earps
I was used to not liking people.

Earps discussed the bullying she experienced at school, claiming that reading the book once more was “really hard” because it brought on previous trauma.
“It most likely planted a seed,” it said. She continued, “My life has been about trying to find that strength to stand up for myself.”
“I just assumed that people would dislike me the majority of my life and career.” Because I always assumed that, I found the team dynamics to be very challenging.
I was taught that no one really cares. In that way, I felt withdrawn. I’ve always hated not being liked. People picked on me if I spoke, so I had to get used to being quiet.
According to Earps, she “felt really misunderstood” because of those emotions.
She also struggled with body image, and she turned to alcohol to deal with her depression and anxiety while drinking to limit her food during the Covid pandemic.
It was undoubtedly conscious. I’ve always felt like I wasn’t slim enough or athletic enough, according to Earps, who aside from the recent few years where I’ve had a much healthier relationship with food.
I was told that my body fat was too high and that I wasn’t fast enough or strong enough. Because I’m an athlete, it comes with the territory.
“But it’s not nice when you’re told you need to reduce your fat and feel uncomfortable in your own skin.”
I can recall being very young and not liking who I was.
As Earps’ popularity on the football pitch increased, so did the number of photographers who travel to prestigious events and the number of invitations to lavish events.
You’re getting all these photos taken in a room, and you think that’s a terrible angle, she continued.
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“I would love to be a mother,” the statement read.
She claims that Wolfsburg’s 2018-2019 experience helped her see things differently, and she is proud of their partnership despite how confusing it was when she met Kitty.
“I don’t think that sexuality is linear,” she said. I don’t categorize things. Being sincere and telling the truth, “yes, this is my relationship, and I’m proud of that – I’m not ashamed,” added Earps.
When writing a book of integrity and authenticity, “I have always tried to keep my relationships private,” but that isn’t possible.
Earps reveals in the book that Kitty had a row with the goalkeeper’s father after being informed of “disgusting things” about their relationship during the Women’s World Cup in 2023.
In that moment, Earps worried about whether her family would accept Kitty.
Both my relationship and family are important to me. We had some challenges to navigate, but we’re now, thankfully, over them, she continued.
Earps has frozen her eggs for use in fertility treatment, and having a family of her own has been something she has been thinking about for a while.
It was an invasive, crazy procedure. Earps said, “I would love to be a mother and have a family, but I also enjoy football.”
Some players “go off and become pregnant,” which is their right, and they do just that. That is something I’d prefer not to do. If the universe allows it, I’d like to have a child someday.
“I had a few questions that I couldn’t respond to. After the procedure, you are given X days of hormone therapy.

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